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Christmas teenager

November 16, 2014

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If you have or have had teenagers or have ever been one ;-), you might be able to relate to this cartoon. One present for the parents, a pile for the kid, who doesn’t even show any gratitude.

I mean, it’s understandable that we each want life to go just how we want it to go every second and that we mainly think about ourselves and our desires. The problem is: that doesn’t work in a setting of other people, because what if someone wants things to go in a way that another person doesn’t? (For example, in marriage, parenting, business, in a society, etc.)

Therefore the first important lesson in our growth is: “It is better to give than receive” Acts 20:35. Then if everyone gives, it works, because there will be plenty to receive from that pool of giving for everyone’s needs to be satisfied 🙂

The second important lesson is that if we just focus on giving to God in obedience to His ways, then that is the best that can happen, because God’s ways are perfect.

Byline:
Dennis Marcellino’s book THE PROOF that God exists and the Bible is True can be seen at http://www.ConclusiveProofOfGod.com and His other books, CDs (including his Christmas CD) and DVDs can be seen at http://www.LighthouseBooksAndMusic.com. His live presentations also can be booked at http://www.SpreadingGod.com/evangelism/html.

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Robin Williams’ suicide … a different take

August 13, 2014

I’m writing this article because I don’t think we’re seeing the real reason for Robin Williams’ suicide being addressed in the media. Here is what I think is being missed.

The fact that Robin Williams committed suicide implicitly said that he made a decision that he didn’t want to be Robin Williams anymore.

The tendency in evaluating that is that he wanted to escape from an alcoholic inclination, or that he wanted to no longer experience the physical suffering from depression, from which he couldn’t envision a solution, even though he tried rehab clinics and had the money to avail himself to the best psychiatrists. That alone says something about the state of psychiatry and how ineffective it is. And it is scandalous that a country only legally endorses a failed psychology system (as opposed to a Biblical solution, which I personally know works). And it is not only scandalous but heartbreaking in a nation where there are 108 suicides every day. I mean a suicide says that no solution can be found to the torment a person goes through. But there IS a solution and I wish that I could have talked to Robin Williams and anyone else who is contemplating suicide (which I do through my books and have gotten feedback that suicides have been prevented with them).

So then what was the real reason for Robin Williams’ depression? There is the accepted norm to see depression as a purely physical reality that must be dealt with with physical treatments. But that physical state doesn’t appear out of a vacuum. Like another physical malady, obesity, it had to build over time. Therefore its causes must be backtracked and eliminated. But unlike obesity, I think that depression has a quicker cure (which I spell out in my program at www.AddictionFreeForever.com).

Setting that cure aside for the moment, what then were the roots of Robin Williams’ depression? Having been in the entertainment industry for many years, I know that there is a pressure to be “on” all the time. And in Robin Williams’ case, that “on” was a very hyper state of being. And that’s what people expected from him. But that state had to be VERY exhausting. And it is especially a dilemma when you don’t feel it … but simultaneously felt a fear to not want to disappoint people. And that continual exhaustion could be very depressing. Therefore, like most entertainers, they get backed into a corner by their public persona and are trapped in this state of being on. And in his particular case, you hear the mourners now say how happy he made everybody. Therefore he couldn’t show his unhappiness (which should have been evident to everyone by the fact that he checked himself into rehab clinics). I mean, why do people drink and use drugs? The answer is: they are trying to change their state. And what they are trying to change is an undesirable (either by themselves or the public) aspect of their state. But there is a natural way to change that. But the person who uses alcohol or drugs doesn’t see that and yet deems the inner pressure to “perform” for others as being mandatory (which could be an aspect of anyone’s life). And part of Robin Williams’ performance didn’t include the anger he felt over his divorces. And that is something that he had to keep bottled up because, as the eulogies are saying, “he just brought happiness to others, and that will be missed.” But obviously, keeping up that happy performance didn’t allow him to be what he was really feeling. He might have just felt alone in that … which would have opened up another can of worms that this nation isn’t ready for … why there is so much divorce (which the Bible also has the solution for).

And this is where the political aspect of this picture comes in. The solution to all of this comes down to understanding how the body, mind and heart we’re in were designed to operate. And this is a design that we have little power over. Therefore the solution is to learn what that design is and then flow with it … not try to manipulate it to what we or others or the general state of peer pressure expect it to be. There’s a line in a song that expresses this well: “Wonderful is what you’ll feel in you when you do the things you were made to do.”

But the problem happens when people feel like they have to be certain ways that are against that design. Another line from an old commercial says, “It’s not nice to fool mother nature.” And although people can micromanage their feelings and actions against nature, that takes a toll. And eventually a person might decide that they don’t want to experience that toll anymore and they choose to opt out in the only way they can figure out to escape it … suicide.

Unfortunately the society has deemed to not endorse what I’ve found to be the cure for this … getting in harmony with the design of our being … which is nailed in the Bible. The say that that is religious, and separation of church and state, blah, blah, blah. The fact is though, that is an objective, not religious solution. That’s why a big part of my work is to show that the Bible is objectively a book of truth, which can be scientifically proven.

Byline:
Dennis Marcellino’s books can be seen at www.LighthouseBooksAndMusic.com. His program can be seen at www.AddictionFreeForever.com. It has helped thousands of people but won’t be acknowledged by the government or insurance industries because it includes the Bible as part of the cure.

Convincing people to follow God

August 7, 2014

If a person has no interest in studying the Bible, and no interest (or fear) about obeying what’s in the Bible, and no sensitivity to hear and follow God within them, and no inclination to talk about God and His ways with others, or no actions to spread God in the world (“Faith without works is dead” James 2:26) … what does that say about the person? It says that they have no relationship with God or any interest in developing one.

Therefore it is the job of us who do have an interest and relationship with God to convince others that this is a good thing to do … nay, the best possible thing to do in this life.

Then it becomes a matter of “discipline” (i.e. being a “disciple”). That is, have you ever forced yourself to do something that you weren’t inclined to do, but then having done it, were really happy that you did because it transformed your experience for the better?

For me in my life, the main transforming things that I’ve done (and continue to do) are to force myself to go to church and study the Bible and develop the skill of listening to God within and join Bible groups and do ministry work. No matter if I have any lethargy regarding those things, once I get the ball rolling, I’m VERY happy that I did. Exhaustion and distraction tend to keep us from exercising those disciplines. And that’s especially true in this busy world, and where electronics have become the modern day Tower of Babel. But here’s what God wants us to do:

Acts 26:15-17, “ ‘I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting,’ the Lord replied. ‘Now get up and stand on your feet. I have appeared to you to appoint you as a servant and as a witness of what you have seen and will see of me. I will rescue you from your own people. I am sending you to them to open their eyes and turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God, so that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.’

But to be motivated to become a servant of Jesus and a witness to others, a person first has to truly discover God and His greatness. That is what would make them enthusiastic about fulfilling that verse.

Towards that end, I’ve written some books to help that. Primarily The PROOF that God Exists and the Bible is True, Why Are We Here?, and How To Directly Experience God. They can be seen at www.LighthouseBooksAndMusic.com.

Survival, Pleasure … and Eternity

May 10, 2014

What is the point of being on this planet? Is it survival? Is it pleasure? And how does death and eternity fit into those approaches?

This is why PROOF of the Bible is critical.

That is, if there is no eternity for humans, then we should do as the Bible says, “Eat, drink and be merry.”

But that approach to survival and pleasure for some is often at the expense of poverty, pain and even death for others. So that is a very selfish existence.

Whereas, the Bible’s approach of love and holiness is perfect. Eternal survival and pleasure, and no guilt. (And think about it, if the aforementioned approach is natural and right, why would guilt even be a part of the human design?)

And in light of the Universe and the proof that it had a Creator (of it, us and what’s on this planet), there is nothing more good or beautiful. And we should be thankful that in the end, good triumphs. And it and what has gone on on this planet is all very understandable (as spelled out in my book Why Are We Here?).

At What Price Unity?

July 16, 2013

Have you ever thought about unity? That is, what unites us as human beings? And God’s purpose in creating us was for unity. But it was for unity within the holy, perfect, harmonious, loving ways that He designed us to operate in.

So then, do the unity bonds that you’ve made or joined in with in your life have the highest respect for God and His ways?

First let’s recognize that no one and nothing on Earth is perfect … except God and His Kingdom. Therefore, that should be our first order of unity that supercedes all other unities. And the way we do that is (like Jesus said) “in Spirit and in Truth.”  That is, God’s Spirit is inside of us. Therefore, being in sync with that is a perfect bond source of unity. It also puts us in perfect harmony with our own being. And the Truth is found in the Bible (which I’ve proven to be true at www.ConclusiveProofOfGod.com).

So now the questions are: where do we find unity, and how much compromise with God’s ways do we allow ourselves to sacrifice for the sake of unity in the world?

Here are some places that people find unity:

The Bible

Various Christian denominations

Other religions

Gender

Political parties

Family

Friends

Marriage

Media

The predominant American culture

Subcultures

Spiritual leaders and movements

Sports teams

Schools and Alumni associations

Nationality

Race

TV shows

Music styles and artists

Workplace

Causes

My conclusion in life is: only cling to and promote perfection. And if involved in other human groupings, never sacrifice perfection. Just try to shed it into each group.

Dennis Marcellino is a speaker (http://youtu.be/hYn4P1vqLSE), an author and musician (www.LighthouseBooksAndMusic.com).

Inspiration for people in ministry

June 3, 2013

There was a visiting preacher yesterday (Dr. John Perkins) who had some good things to say.

(1) He is 83 and therefore gives me hope that I have a number of good years left in me to do my ministry :-) (www.SpreadingGod.com/evangelism.html)

(2) The purpose of life is to know God and “make God known” (which is the focus of my ministry) and worship Him forever.

(3) God doesn’t want us to join cults, He wants us to join Him. (Regarding my teaching people to go DIRECTLY to God).

(4) “We’ve got a crime scene here. And we need intelligent inspectors.”

The Dialogue of our Life (and when it is better to be alone)

March 9, 2013

When we’re alone, we either dialogue with our “flesh” and subconscious or we dialogue with a perfect God (via the Holy Spirit. That is assuming that we’ve developed the ability to hear the Holy Spirit*.)

When we’re with people, we either dialogue with their imperfections or with them channeling the Holy Spirit. If with the Holy Spirit, it is utterly valuable to dialogue with a unique source point of the Holy Spirit. If with their imperfections, and they aren’t open to our Holy Spirit feedback to help them grow, it is better to be alone. To do otherwise would be to frustrate the Holy Spirit wanting to reach them.

It is also good to recognize that when we subject ourselves to any form of media, we are in dialogue with it because we have emotional and intellectual reactions … whether voluntary or involuntary.

Proverbs 9:7-9, “Whoever corrects a mocker invites insult; whoever rebukes a wicked person incurs abuse. Do not rebuke a mocker or they will hate you; rebuke a wise person and they will love you. Instruct a wise person and they will be wiser still; teach a righteous person and they will add to their learning.”

Proverbs 21:9, “It is better to live on the edge of a roof, than to live in a house with a quarreling woman.”

Psalm 1:1-2, “Blessed is the person who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. But they delight in the law of the LORD, meditating on it day and night.”

* To develop the ability to hear the Holy Spirit and isolate it from amongst all the inner influences, go to www.LighthouseBooksAndMusic.com and get How To Directly Experience God (a Step by Step Guide).